Latest update December 15th, 2019 12:00 AM
A List of Bridesmaid Dos and Don’ts
If you are going to be a bridesmaid in your friend’s wedding then your role is not just confined to being present at the wedding in a beautiful dress, drinking champagne. Bridesmaid’s role comes along with a bunch of responsibilities as well. Let us help you understand what is expected of you;
Understand your Duties:
Different brides have different expectations from their bridesmaid. Have a meeting with the bride and the bridal party and understand the duties the bride allocates you. Each bridesmaid is there in the wedding to help the bride plan the wedding and take little pressure off her.
Be Frank with your Budget:
Bridesmaids are expected to pay for their dress and shoes. They also chip in to arrange the bachelorette party. Be realistic and frank with your budget and do not feel pressurized to go beyond your comfort zone. Sometimes a bride can be unreasonable in asking you to pick a dress which is not within your budget. Affordable Bridesmaid dresses for a price of as low as below $100 are available online at wedding websites like Azazie.com.
Don’t Hesitate to Say No:
If you are having issues either with the budget or the amount of time which is expected from you to spend on planning the wedding, do not be afraid to say no. After all, it is not your wedding and you need to prioritize your life as well. If the responsibilities are too much for you to handle, back out of the wedding before it is too late for the bride to replace you. The bride will be thankful if you do not make false commitments and not ditch her at the last moment.
Be Honest with the Bride:
Being the bridesmaid has its own perks, you get to have an opinion on many things about the wedding. Be honest and straight. It is better to tell the bride honestly your thoughts in a constructive manner rather than not saying anything at all.
Take Charge if Required:
There are many crises that can arise and things that could go wrong during the wedding. Be proactive and take charge. Do not be afraid to step in whenever required. After all the bride has selected you as her bridesmaid because she trusts you.
Stay Calm and Come Prepared:
The wedding day can be an emotional day for the bride. You need to maintain your calm and give the bride the strength and comfort she needs.
You also need to stay calm in situations such as wardrobe malfunction. You will be surprised how many times such things happen at a wedding. Be ready with a sewing kit, some tissues, and a fashion tape.
Remember, it is the Bride’s day:
Yes, you get to doll up in a sexy bridesmaid dress and look beautiful on your friend’s wedding day but ultimately it is her wedding day, and it is about her, not you. Keep that in your mind and be there for your friend if she needs you.
Being a bridesmaid is a privilege as your friend is trusting you with significant duties on her wedding day. Be responsible and most importantly be happy for her on her big day.
